The Work You’re Doing

  • Meditation.

  • It's been a rough few days—a few months.

  • Wanting to be with someone specific vs. just wanting someone to pour into them.

  • Debris cleaning and house assessment after Hurricane Francine.

  • The air in the room bursts, and Miles laughs. Then, the sound detonates with a throaty, unrelenting, snaggle-toothed shriek of joy. I rest a book on my chest, close my eyes, and try to place myself in a time before my name softened into a title—when a cookie could be eaten by one person. Once upon a time, a room could be tranquil, and no Batman Legos were waiting to impale my foot. I take a deep bre— "Argh, What's up, Daddy!?!?" yells Miles as he jumps, knees first, into my lap. "I snuck up on you. I'm a NINJA!!!" "Good job, Bud." I wince, curving my mouth into something resembling a smile. I hug and kiss him twice on the forehead.

  • Two days after the storm, a man rides a bicycle past the house, blasting jazz from a speaker in his backpack. This is New Orleans

  • Early flight.

  • Just beat Hurricane Helene after a two-hour layover in Atlanta.

  • Thoughts on love as a tapestry: sew a little here and there, and then appreciate the art/your art forever.

  • Wisconsin, first home to the Dakota Oyate, Ho-Chunk, Ojibwe, Illinois, Fauk, Sauk, Mahican, and the Menominee (namesake of the city I'm teaching in for this Campus Summit), is beautiful.

  • Toya's text: "We love you, and we're proud of the work you're doing." Being supported is a blessing, but being seen by the people you love means the world.

  • Tonight's Author Talk for the University of Wisconsin-Stout culminated five days of writing workshops and conversations that I will remember with remarkable tenderness for the rest of my life—tears of joy and gratitude. Sometimes, this writer/speaker/life thing is so generous that you meet beautiful people and discover a ready space in your heart you didn't know you had.

  • Everyone is problematic to a cause.

  • Everyone is a hero to a cause.

  • Orange juice & Cheezits.

With all my heart…Té

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